Sorority Rush takes over TikTok –– and college budgets
If you’ve seen a flood of perfectly curated outfits, choreographed house entrances, and emotional bid day reveals on TikTok, you’ve stumbled onto RushTok. This corner of social media follows potential new members (PNMs) as they navigate sorority recruitment, from the first handshake to the final bid.
The spectacle has gone viral, drawing viewers far beyond the college campus.
The dream and the price tag
For many, joining a sorority is more than just a social decision. It’s a milestone they’ve envisioned for years, complete with new friendships, mentorship opportunities, and a sense of belonging.
However, the dream can come with a cost. According to a Bankrate study highlighted by NewsNation, sorority membership can run between $1,000 and $4,750 per semester, which covers application fees, dues and event expenses.
Trisha Addicks is the founder of It’s All Greek to Me, a full-service consulting firm. While the costs are real, Addicks says that some schools and chapters offer financial aid or payment plans — a fact worth exploring before bid day.
Rush involves multiple rounds of events where PNMs visit different houses, engage in conversation, and try to leave a lasting impression. Each round narrows the field until preference night –– the final, high-stakes round when chapters make their last picks,
The pressure to make the “right” impression has fueled a niche industry: rush consulting. Coaches guide PNMs through everything from small talk to social media prep, sometimes months before recruitment even begins.
Consultants in high demand
Stacia Damron, founder of Hiking in Heels Sorority Rush Coaching, says she’s working with 300 PNMs this week alone.
“Sorority membership offers young women a strong community, inspiring mentors, and opportunities for personal and professional growth,” Damron said in an email to Straight Arrow News. “[Hiking in Heels is] a source of support, guidance, and encouragement as they find their sisters and a home on campus.”
Damron saw how competitive the recruitment process was, and “was shocked” at the lack of resources available to PNMs. She compares Hiking in Heels to SAT style prep, offering private, 1:1 coaching, on-call recruitment coaching and other guides and checklists.
Addicks tells Straight Arrow News that social media can make an already competitive process even more intense.
“These girls have put in so much effort to get into college that we really don’t want them to drop the ball once they’re in,” Addicks said. “The next goal is to find your people.”
Social media pressure
RushTok culture isn’t just about conversations and connections — it’s also about presentation. From “outfit of the day” videos to high-end clothing hauls, the visual side of recruitment is hard to ignore.
“You don’t have to wear the brands to get into a sorority,” Addicks said. “You can rock a Target outfit, and if you’re rocking it, that’s way better than someone who’s wearing Love Shack Fancy and is not confident in it.”
Addicks knows the emotional and financial stakes firsthand. In her upcoming book, “The Rush Bible,” she calls sorority recruitment “many things — none of them easy, but all of them worth it.” The guide promises the same insider advice she gives paying clients, along with straight talk on everything from what to wear (“No booty shorts or stilettos”) to how to choose a chapter that aligns with your own values.
“What you see on #RushTok, or read about online, isn’t nearly enough to help a PNM effectively navigate rush,” she said. It’s about “[finding your] people without breaking their hearts, losing their minds, or going broke.”
Addicks believes Rush is likely to see even more of a boom in the coming years.
“I just see that it’s going to become more difficult, more competitive, just because of the rise of popularity from social media,” she said. “I think it’s going to continue to gain momentum, but some changes will have to be made in order to have girls not be heartbroken.”
Advice for PNMs
Not everyone who goes through recruitment receives a bid. Addicks encourages PNMs to focus on preparation, mental health, and realistic expectations.
“Avoid the comparison game,” she said. “Don’t go on TikTok and Instagram when you’re going through rush. Have a support squad in place before you go. They know your worth. They know you’re amazing. So when you’re feeling down, rush is an emotional roller coaster.”
Ella Rae Greene, Editor In Chief
